What is immediately interesting about this topic is that there have evolved two distinctions: family of origin, and family of choice. This implies a separation and choice that one goes through as they grow into independence. Typically, the family of choice is chosen, obviously, and thus is a more desirable group with which one plays family connection. Though many think the family of origin is a crap shoot, spiritual and celestial information suggests otherwise…that this is a specific and necessary pre-incarnational choice each makes to enter into a situation where they have the best opportunity to remember and reclaim who they are by design.

SO, likely there will be challenge and opportunity with the family of origin as it plays out at least until one leaves home around 18. Unfortunately, this bigger perspective about the importance of the FOO to provide the best scenarios to help one get clear is lost on most people. So, family bashing and blame drench the therapeutic couches that so many have sat upon to help make sense of the energetics of the wounding that has occurred.

In many ways it is ignorance that has made the family experience such a hit and miss adventure. Ignorance of a bigger picture that the family is a selected arena where awareness and change can take place to amplify the deeper truths within each has left many a family in shambles. SO, like so many of these topics we explore there has to be a digging out of the programmed past in order to open to a bigger picture and a more nurturing and nourishing and respectful experience.

Briefly, to get out of the influence one has to make new choices and stop blaming others for how things have turned out. This action is usually the wounded child self running the show and pointing fingers while she hopes everything will turn out and he will be finally accepted and cherished and loved. And, as such, it will be a long and winding road to reclaim any semblance of that desire.

Beliefs and the way it is/was have wounded most, if not all of us…so be it. It is time to step out of the comfort zone of Daddy did this to me or Mommy did not care or…simple? Yes…easy? No

Because this impacts all of humanity as all have family I suggest that there be new courses in understanding the big picture that are initiated with the start of traditional elementary school years. The new generations coming in already have within them the knowing and remembrance of the big picture of the design so it only a matter of reminding them and acknowledging them. This could be a integral part of new curriculum in the new education system that prepares individuals for a conscious life with one another.

Currently, the family dynamic is broken in that there really is no education about how to parent. With no understanding a parent will revert to what they experienced and fumble through that likely perpetuating the sins of the father upon their own. The cycle continues until there is a collective break…which is beginning to show itself in these times (more in a moment).

With the wounded rearing the wounded, little will change…only more damage will befall the families. Perhaps you can see how some foundational teachings can open the door to sweeping change in many of these topics presented. Can you also see how the sweeping shifts and dismantling of the old ways that imprisoned true independence will reveal new vistas and empower each to invest heavily in making life the beautiful thing it was meant to be? No random act this virus…

Clear the misinformation and misunderstanding first to initiate the embracing of that bigger picture. Humanity must learn to self care. They must understand how they perpetuate pain and wounding and are prone to blaming others first. They must learn about emotion and how it serves the full being. They must learn how to release the old pain. They must learn about the transformational power of tears. They must learn about their individual patterns of pain and be guided to change them into life affirming actions. They must learn how to cleanse and clear energy after they have learned the big picture of their own expanded energetic anatomy. They must learn of their profound relationship with all of life. They must learn that violence and aggressive conflict have no place on this earth. They must learn to open their own heart to activate compassion and caring and a willingness to support others with thought word and action. They must step out of the pit of judgment and criticism of self and others…

Lots to do…but by now you know and have proven that a little conscious action goes a very long way. Start the process with one thing, the first step, and then pay attention to how your own Higher Self guidance delivers the pathway right to you. Respond to what shows up and before you know it many of the above changes have collectively taken place.

Now, from this place of clarity and understanding one can take on the awesome responsibility and privilege of parenting and creating the nurturing family. Here are some tenets and actions of the Aquarian vision of family already showing itself in those of higher frequency:

1. Family nurtures body, mind, and spirit. It provides for the basic needs to be met while at the same time ensuring the child is valued to the point that they are celebrated. It is the family that teaches through clear modeling how to live in the open compassionate way that honors all life. Because the parents are clear (see above) they can be themselves and model masculine and feminine elements so that there is clarity and flow to deliver the eventual unification of the M F into the androgynous complete expression of human life, balanced and present. The family teaches and models clear communication, emotional literacy, and growing independence. It provides for an understanding of the human physical and energetic design by modeling wellness on all levels. The family inspires wonder and imagination and keeps alive the knowings that the new incarnate has brought in. The family monitors issues to address them and find win win solution quickly to assist the incarnate in working through any specific issues they arrived with. All of this can occur by conscious choice and action and each doing their work to stay clear and clean energetically.
2. The family engages the child to insure independence and confidence, helping to clarify specific skills and talents that came in.
3. The family openly connects with spirit and engages actively the interfacing with Source, often calling upon the new arrival for information and insight (yes, they are capable). Family spiritual practice that offers a variety of tools and experiences is essential. Calling upon the child to share what they know from the Cosmos and letting them demonstrate is the acknowledgment and support needed to put the new vibrations into action.
4. The family is the primary modeler and teacher of unconditional love. Given the environment the new incarnate child will simply be given permission to be that which they are: Love.
5. The family must establish its capacity to always be a resource to the child, no matter the age…demonstrating communication, and inspiration, and confidence, and willingness, and adventure, and solution making, and manifesting intention.
6. The family must prepare the child for change, teaching them to flow in the moment, calling upon guidance to meet the forms of the now.
7. The family must prepare the child to be a world citizen free from the separation and beliefs in inequalities from the past. The unification of life must be demonstrated.
8. The family must usher the child into a complete relationship with Earth and all her kingdoms. Interfacing with the many varieties of life in a cooperative, loving way will prepare them to apply the truth of their being to the moment, no matter the form.

Just a few perspectives on what is arriving. One thing leads to the next. Get clear and then interface with life and integrate into the flow. We are here to serve one another. The world collective is a better place when any of these are made manifest in the child raising. Make the family the crucible of clarity and the fountain of infinite possibility, preparing each member for the quality life we incarnated to engage and fully experience.