We hear all the time the words Family Values, spoken like this is the holy place where we are nourished and guided into fruition to be good citizens of the world. Please….that is, except in the case of rare exception, not the case. Family has been where most of the wounding takes place, where self esteem is shattered, where abuse is rampant, where pressure to be come what the parent never did is strong…on and on, you get the picture. People carry the experiences and the prejudices about family and they get played out in generations by way too many. And all this while we are moving towards the Oneness of Universal Community. How can this be?
Like always, there is a bigger picture. The inner child self carries the woundings, the patterns, the beliefs and it is this precious one who must be reeducated to pave the way for the new forms arriving. Things can and are changing. The focus on PTSD on a large scale is a beginning that recognizes that something happened to so many. Wounds can be healed. In the meantime we feed new information and new perspectives that deliver new paradigms. We practice compassion, empathy, and forgiveness for our selves and one another.
With this in mind we examine the many faces of family and apply new information to create the new understandings that translate to new behaviors with a pure Love foundation. We shall see what inner balance and self love can do to impact the human population. Here is the sequence of exploration that begins with the next session.
a. Celestial Family
b. Family of Origin
c. Family of Choice
d. Extended World Family
e. The Process of Embracing
f. Integration
g. becoming Flexible
In the mean time, look at your history while also looking at how you would like it to be in your life. Begin to see what you can do in your moments of living to witness others as well as yourself. Also play with the notion that you had the perfect family experience. How might your life be different today? I invite you to be open to changes that can occur by paying attention, clearing one’s old energetic debris, and making different life affirming choices in all of your moments of living.
