One of the greatest challenges humanity faces is the tendency to separate and isolate. Woundings that form beliefs attract us to the life and world of less than, thinking and living as if we do not belong with the fortunate ones. Isolation shuts doors and turns us away from looking elsewhere to augment our own current lack of knowledge or skill. We live in a self-sustained eddy that only gives us as far as we can currently believe and see…while all around life swirls and invites and feeds and nourishes.

New generations of beings incarnating with the collective doctrine of Oneness and community and connection are susceptible to the seduction of a world of electronic diversion toys, devices that demand autonomy and separation and steer us away from human interaction. Will it take solar activity that interrupts the fields of electricity to initiate the wake up to connection? Or will we find the inner rebellion necessary to find the balance of using the technology  while still having human community? The decision is in the hands of every being here as it is our own choices that feed the Earth’s crystal grid that calls forth the collective responses. We all have a part here.

So, where do you stand in being in the world. How are you with people? This is not so much about exploring relationships as it is about being open and willing to be connected with others and pool resources for the good of the collective. Even this, however, may still be caught in the web of the old with its fangs of mistrust and I can do it better on my own. Sure you can…but collaboration is an unexplored fertile ground for so, so many. Well, it is time to step out, once again, of the comfort zone to rediscover the oh, so much more.

I have experienced and seen when people start to wake up and use new skills that they expect everything to be just like they want it. It becomes a period of adjustment to find that just because you ask does not mean you will get it. That journey of balance has been kicked out of the house by many, proving to their wounded self that, see, I just don’t matter. Typically, asking opens the door to a negotiation of 50/50. It really is about the asking, the stepping out and risking.

At some point your vibration will reach the frequency that your implant of absolute trust will activate and you will once again feel the blissful comfort of a Universe that loves you without hesitation. Why not help that along? Take a moment and reflect where you get seduced in the I’ll do it myself tactic. Make a list. Then make a list, reflecting honestly, of where you could use some help in your life…on all levels, within and without. Knowing that the Celestial world is always available and that there are a number of etheric beings at your beck and call, you can make some steps in faith. It is the human domain where stuff gets in the way and people become false, unreliable, co-dependent, mean…yet, even here, you have power, as often, as we shall explore more, they only reflect qualities that are residing in you for now.

Back to your list…you know what to do next. With each entry make suggestions of what resources you might approach. Then, yes…do it. Go ask for help. Ask people you know. Ask the guides for assistance. Ask for inspiration. Ask for support and the willingness to keep asking. Ask that the results come in ways that you understand. Ask that you establish and maintain the will to not only keep asking but also accept the help when it comes.

Asking, when you truly could use it, can quickly become an easy habit…a good one. It takes awareness, choice, and action. Keep at it. Be open to completing the circle as well. As you ask more and more, so, too, will others begin to ask of you…it is Universal Law in action here. Become a part of the flow. We shall explore the act and art of giving next time.

Of course, you are capable, and can likely do most things by yourself and be very successful. But, you did not incarnate into your own planet of one. You came here with billions of other Source expressions to play with. Engage life, engage people, ask for help. It leads to a connected life and a world that moves into cooperation and common intent that softens the edges and massages the flow. Sounds pretty good to me. And to think that you can actually change the world by simply asking for help…

Finally, let’s remember to ask ourselves for help as well…what? Sounds contradictory…well, I get that. We are talking about asking your inner child or inner adult for help in embracing your moments of living. As you develop a relationship with your own inner child self you will see how working together and showing up can lead to the actual healing of many leftover woundings. Your child self likely has been feeling separate and isolated in one way or another for a very long time. These feelings lead directly to patterns of thinking, believing, and living, directly impacting how life shows up for you. More on this later. For now, remember that your child self is there. Ask her if she would like anything, if he would like to do something, if she would be willing to hear some new information about living as a child again…you get the picture. These little acts of connection are designed to build a conscious relationship with the part of you that holds the keys to your freedom…again, more on that later.

For now, here are some starters for learning to ask:

1. Hey, I was wondering if you could assist me in______
2. I sure could use some help in___________
3. Are you available for a moment, I could use some assistance in_____
4. Man, I just don’t get how to___. Do you have any ideas?
5. I’ve been working on not doing so much on my own. Would you be willing to help me get clear on asking for help?
6. Hey, precious little one, are you doing OK? Want to talk?
7. I just don’t want to eat an ice cream on my own. Would you care to join me?
8. Do you know anything about___. I seem to be having a challenge with it.
9. I’m exploring the art of brainstorming with others after doing most everything on my own. Would you be willing to play with me on this?
10. Up until now I have not been very good at asking for help. How are you with that? Can you get me started on knowing what to say?