Relationship is best served by the action of the circle. Any relationship of inequality is doomed. Too many potentials die in the struggle for power and control, born in the unprocessed woundings of the disjointed moments of living most often in the early years. As Celestial beings we have to learn to mistrust. As the dimension of Earth is served by the frequency of duality for the time being we have grown accustomed to the world of opposites and all that lays between on the table of living.  We stop the flow and, of course, we suffer, too often not even knowing why. It is the cost of interrupting the flow.

The need to find someone to fill the holes left gaping from living short of our own magnificence are impossible to fill if another being is saddled with the task. There is not enough capacity to give fully to another while sustaining enough inner resources to feel some sense of balance and power (at least in our current collective frequency). And yet, around the world a hundred million times a minute, couples try to make the other make everything OK for them. In a dance with no real steps we push and shove in the name of love, eventually losing site of the capacity to love fully and disappear into our own circle of default comfort…alone. The big circle of flow is diminished to chasing one’s own tail. Mildly entertaining but far from fulfilling, this dance leads us back to the middle of nowhere, yearning for meaningful connection but afraid to really let go and trust again.

The “skills learned” in such repetitive action become the way things are, who we are, or so it seems. Most never move beyond this hint of happiness and simply go as long as they can until they lose interest and then start again with the same frequency being in a new set of clothes. The stoked fire burns fast and once again, each stand in an embrace looking over the shoulder of the used-to-be-the-one  for the next model.

These cycles play out with guides as well. Life becomes conditional. We want all to fit the mode we have learned and adopted and cling to. Soon we find ourselves without any real sense of etheric connection because we have pushed it all away by our own stubborn set of rules that used to seem so right. All the while the guides, the resources, the inspiration, the host of potential solutions stand just beyond the veil of awareness, waiting for some sign that change is afoot.

Little giving and little receiving…leaving one alone in the field of the endless potential, head down, looking for what might have been…one more time. The guides try to make contact though they are supposed to be waiting for contact only. Their love is so strong they will bend the rules to get you off your place of perpetual discomfort…for really it is, just underneath the veneer of “I’m fine”. Call me…they send the inner message. No one hears because they are so busy looking in the mirror to find fault with something. The guides send a bird, a deer, a breeze, a cloud, a song, a casual conversation, a moment of peace….and still they are unheard. But, they are bound to you and your frequency and are more than willing to wait out your adopted mortality and laugh with you when you pass over and see them hanging out…”where were you?!” You shout. They look at you and say, “Did you ever call?” Awkward…a circle interrupted and another incarnation on a desert isle.

Love is a circle. Life is a circle. Guidance is a circle…of giving/asking and receiving. The conscious one starts with giving first, from that established place of wholeness they send out a high frequency love pulse from the awakened heart center. The call of giving activates the flow and invites the action of reciprocity. AT first it is in equal doses. As you give so shall you receive. You receive in kind…and that feels good. So, inspired and motivated, you choose to give a little more. And a result rains down upon your consciousness and invites you to play more. Engaging you soon find yourself invested more in giving because of the way it opens your heart and activates a wonderful chemical wash of an inner feeling that is exquisite. The receiving becomes ancillary…less and less important. Your action is the choice that integrates the whole frequency of abundance into you and into your world.

The abundance is there no matter what, no matter how much you give or how much you receive. At some point you cross the threshold of living the abundant life. Things just work out so smoothly for you…always. You receive with Grace and in one motion pass it on to someone who needs to remember who they are once again. Guides become the middle men whispering to your being the gifts to give and to whom to give them too. They steer the give back because you have become such a willing receiver. The give backs start to come from the higher frequency perspectives and are becoming more and more special and in some ways, unexpected. And that is the perfect place of magic…when there are no expectations.

You have reached the place of knowing how the circle in flow works. The more you give the more you receive the very thing necessary to interface and elevate your life in the now. And you did not even ask for it. It is beautiful when all one knows is abundance. The abundance works because you are willing to receive. Your knowing dis-integrates the old energy of attachment and you simply trust how beautiful the whole thing works. Your guides are elated as they ride the waves of knowing and intersperse very special and specific gifts that speak to you on very deep levels, opening you up even more…on and on you move toward the land of Source where this is how all things flow and serve one another.

You know the guides and you know how it works and you engage constantly the flow of the circle receiving and giving, giving and receiving. Perpetual motion is born and you fully surrender into the conscious matrix that directs life with no purpose save the experience and the expansion of the experience. Oh, happy day…

SO, give freely of yourself by asking for help and assistance. Learn to graciously accept that which comes in the essential act of freely receiving. Channel the reception directly into the giving and feed the cycle. Become part of the wheel that knows no limit. Make contact to receive the guidance. Use the guidance to feed the contact, which, in turn, reciprocates in kind by feeding you inspiration….which opens a mighty door to the incessant wave of abundance…on and on, ever forward, ever feeding the other…the circle, the essential element to reclaiming a major room in your own blessed happy place…