I googled relationship and was given this as one definition: the way in which two or more concepts, objects, or people are connected, or the state of being connected.
As you can see the word connected is prominent and also essential to the actuality of the relationship. Now, cutting to the chase, we can see that the connectivity is one of the current social and cultural challenges that has risen in these swiftly changing times. People are frightened and hesitant and suspicious of one another. Trust is at an all time low. Many are choosing to turn their back on traditional relationship and opting for more alone time. The technology that immerses us incessantly places us in a growing life of separation, in actuality, though it appears we are connected by devices.
I submit that what is here in the previous paragraph is temporary and a strong sign of a significant transition, transformation, and a waking up of humanity. The Cosmos is infiltrating the Oneness vibration more and more and all living beings are experiencing its influence. There is a mighty big picture that is shaping up. Historical relationship has been inconsistent, compromised, somewhat of a sham, and nothing like we were led to believe it is or how we wanted it to be. We have been too full of the investment into our own and the societal doctrine of limitations that pretty much kept most in unfulfilling relationships going through the motions of loving connection.
This is what happens when most are too full of unprocessed energetic debris from past woundings, of unreleased emotions, holding back words unspoken, and a real fear about being discovered as not knowing who they really are. The facades are monumental and are kept in place by a perpetual fear that one is not good enough, normal enough, or valued. The culture and the system (political, religious, corporate, education) perpetuate the misinformation that keeps the beliefs and the subsequent patterns in place for most. The “powers that be” use vast resources to keep most people compromised and walking the fine line between hopelessness and purpose. The pot is perpetually stirred by the ever changing landscape of “normal” and most simply wander around looking for the mama they never really had to make sure that everything will be OK and that they are lovable…while all the while they stand at the cliff of being abandoned once again into the vast mystery of dying.
And, we wander looking for a mate to make the emptiness go away. We are herded towards institutional marriage and the correct kind of relationship that will further distract us from the one place where we can find some respite…within. We are force fed the glittering ideals of commitment, respect, love, compassion, trust, support while all around us in the news, the media, and in the very acts before our eyes, there is very little of any of this. The idea of quality relationship is a crap shoot where too many buy into the distraction of finding the perfect mate who will walk with us through thick and thin, turning farther away from learning to know themselves for who they really are, first. Leaving, infidelity, open marriages/relationships, multiple sexual partners, divorce, murders, suicides, mass shootings, addictions, disease, psychotic breaks/conditions…these are the easy outlets of the inability to show up to another authentically, because we have yet learned to do it for ourselves.
Our own energetic debris and unprocessed wounds punish our partners. Our insecurities are played out in the dance of being together. We want to fix others to make them what we wish we had but never got. We speak and act out our own separate love language and give the other what we want for ourselves, thinking we are being loving. We role play and act out fantasy and wish and hope and yearn and flail and run and get numb…for what? You answer that…
In a nutshell, here we are as a result of all of these incarnations as dysfunctional humans long fed illusion and lies just so we would be good worker bees to those who had the most shekels. OK…fine. There is your normal…the starting point for waking up to you and the magnificence of expanded relationship…with all of life. Yep…here we are…seems kind of hopeless…but, not so…actually, it is the most profound of times bursting with the pure potential to finally access the conscious beauty of true relationship…with All of Life…including your own self.
To stand in the newly rising land of living as if requires us, like so many times before, to get a clear understanding of where we are through where we have been. The agreement to stay in that spell has been terminated by the Infinite Love of the Cosmic Source that lives conveniently right here within each of us. Things will not and can not stay the same. The higher frequency energies are dismantling the mis-information and the devotion to it. And there really is nothing we can do to resist…yes, even with that Earthly blessing/curse Free Will still at play. We are being carried by our own true design into the place from whence we have come to consciously live as who we really are. And, we are not able to interrupt that current. We can check out and leave and then come back for another incarnational run when the vibration is higher if we want…but that is the only way “out” of this revolution of evolution.
Step into it, engage, commit to a mysterious force in unwavering faith…this is what is called for. For that, my friend, is what will open the door to the connected relationship we have long sought. The first step is required from you. Once that is taken the rest will reveal itself in the unique ways that will speak only to you…and to me, in my own ways. The first commitment is to reclaim You and take the lid off the ignorance. That will activate the forms that will seed the greater awakening, through you as your in the now choices of action. Are you OK with accepting that you are a primary key to saving humanity and inaugurating the Time of Perpetual Glory? No pressure…but you are, indeed, this powerful. The what to do will show up to you at the moment it must be done…choose wisely and move forth always without hesitation. The adventure of a lifetime awaits…
One last point before we explore connected relationship: our dysfunctional capacity to connect is primarily a human thing played out between other humans. Yes, that dysfunction has led to mis-beliefs and arrogant actions that compromised the greater relationship with life on Earth, with animals, plants, the environment, and the very Earth herself. But, it is primarily how we have learned to mistreat one another and misread our own understanding of self that has brought about this time of Celestial intervention. The sequence of healing is as follows:
- activate and choose awareness;
- declare the intention to turn inward to cleanse and then reactivate your own Celestial Design;
- take the first step into doing so;
- pay close attention to the subtle forms of what unfolds moment by moment;
- refine the incessant practice of self care;
- open to external guidance;
- start consciously activating your Earth connection via nature time and focus;
- befriend life as element, mineral, plant, insect, animal;
- bring your living into the devotion to the Now;
- engage other humans, mostly in random acknowledgement via the showering of spontaneous, anonymous blessings;
- turn your focus to accessing and affirming beauty through the expanded use of your own senses;
- activate and maintain your inner child connection;
- activate and engage your guides and etheric teacher relationships;
- make the call to Higher Self to reveal to you;
- introduce the HS to the Inner Child and spend time working the three way relationship;
- engage other humans in friendship slowly, choosing to develop commonality and mutual support;
- engage in primary and intimate relationships;
- share all of the above with your “partner.”
This is a conscious sequence built upon the integration of each frequency principle. Engage it and let it guide you into that primary relationship with your own self, which, in these new times, is the essential relationship upon which all others are sourced. In these sessions we shall explore the how-to’s of many of the above.
Let’s finish off with a look at the connected relationship. Here is a list of components of that kind of relationship (in no particular order):
- Is built on and infused with Love
- Carries no judgment or criticism, only clear communication that is intentional towards mutually serving solution
- Functions via trust in action
- Seeks common and shared experience
- Allows for times of separation and unification so that energies can be maintained and so each can serve their own unique experience of incarnate living as Source
- Allows for the easy sharing of emotion and emotional support
- Exercises unwavering compassion and empathy for others
- Exercises imagination and wonder and play as common shared components of interaction
- Honors and respects all
- Keeps itself energetically clean
- Consciously practices personal recharge, knowing that that serves the connection as well
- Consciously engages the Inner Children in play
- Communicates needs and wants clearly with the other
- Spends lots of time in Nature in recharge, exploration, and celebration, together and alone
- Shares in spiritual dialogue and inter connectivity with individual guides and teachers
- Addresses challenges collectively
- Applies gratitude in copious amounts for partner and for self
- Supports the other in all ways
- Makes no assumptions
- Is impeccable with one’s words
- Refrains from taking anything personally
- Learns and expands together
- Is physical, tender, sensuous, and devoted toward pleasing one another
- Listens
- Practices good communication
- Plays well
- Is adventurous
- Flows with the many rhythms and cycles of life on Earth
- Integrates in Oneness
- Sounds and sings together
- Practices healthy living via food, touch, hydration, rest, and exercise
- Engages spiritual practices like chant, mantra, meditation, accessing guidance
- Studies esoterica and applies it to the moments of living
- Engages recreation for fun and experience
- Is active in providing service to others
- And, oh, so much more
I encourage you to start working with this list to get clear on each and put each into practice. Apply each to self as well as others. Apply each to the Natural world as well, noticing how you do so. The greater goal of this is to fully engage life through the conscious experience of the I Am That I Am Expressing As Me. In turn you are invited to allow that to permeate all external relationship on all levels of life. Pay attention and take spontaneous action whenever you can. Consider that we are all here to witness one another back to wholeness. We are here to live the life we love and love the life we live.
To be in relationship with life is to manage and massage all of the connections as if they each are the most important. In this way the connections serve both in very high ways. And all finds itself in the magnificence of the eternal flow…
